Why am I still not over my ex?
If you've been asking yourself that question — you're not weak, you're not broken, and you're not doing it wrong.
Healing from heartbreak isn't just about time. It's about having the right tools to actually move through the pain — not around it, not above it, but through it. And most people were never taught how to do that.
That's why you're still stuck. Not because something is wrong with you. But because nobody gave you the roadmap.
Thriving After Heartbreak is a self-paced course that gives you exactly that. A clear, structured path from heartbroken and stuck to feeling at peace, whole and empowered — so you can finally stop going in circles, find closure on your own terms, and move forward with confidence.
Heartbreak is one of the most disorienting experiences you can go through.
You lie awake at night replaying conversations. Replaying moments. Running through every what-if until your mind is exhausted.
You keep trying to figure out what went wrong. What you could have done differently. Whether any of it could have been saved.
And underneath all of that is a question that might be the hardest one of all — what does my future look like now?
The life you had planned, the future you'd imagined — it's gone. And in its place is this overwhelming uncertainty about who you are without this person. Whether you'll ever feel okay again. Whether you'll find love again. Whether the future you always wanted — a partner, a family, a life that feels whole — is still possible for you.
Maybe you're starting to wonder if you're going to be alone forever.
If you're nodding along — I want you to know something.
What you're feeling makes complete sense. Heartbreak isn't just an emotional experience. It lives in your body. It follows you into every room, every song, every ordinary moment that suddenly doesn't feel ordinary anymore.
But this pain is not your final destination.
There is a way through this — not around it, not above it, but through it. And on the other side is a version of you that is more at peace, more self-aware, and more grounded in yourself than you were before this happened.
That's what this course is here for.
I know exactly how you feel.
Because I've been there.
Two years into my marriage, my husband asked for a divorce.
I was devastated. I had done everything "right" — multiple degrees, a professional career, my own apartment, a family-oriented partner. I thought I was on track.
And then suddenly, I wasn't.
For a while I was stuck in "why did this happen to me." I felt pitiful. I felt sorry for myself. I spent months replaying what went wrong, wondering if I'd ever feel like myself again.
But at some point, I got tired of it.
I decided I wasn't going to let this just be a sad story I carried around. I was going to make it mean something. So I got to work — therapy, reading, meditating, being completely intentional about understanding not just what went wrong, but what my part in it was.
What I found changed my life.
I didn't just heal from the heartbreak. I healed the deeper wounds that had been quietly shaping my relationships, my self-worth, and the way I showed up in the world for years. I came out the other side more confident, more self-aware, and more at peace with myself than I'd ever been.
That experience is why I became a somatic coach — and why I created Thriving After Heartbreak. Because I know there's a way through this. And I want to show you the path.
Joyce Lee, Somatic Coach
If you've been trying to heal — reading, talking it through, keeping yourself busy, waiting for time to do its work — and you're still not feeling better, it's not because you're doing it wrong.
It's because most of what we're taught about healing from heartbreak keeps us in our heads. And heartbreak doesn't just live in your head. It lives in your body, in your nervous system, in the patterns and beliefs that were quietly running in the background long before this relationship ended.
Healing happens when you learn to work with all of it — not just the thoughts, but the emotions underneath them. That's the approach at the heart of Thriving After Heartbreak.
This course is for you if...
You're healing from a recent breakup — or you ended a relationship a while ago and still can't seem to move on.
You've tried to heal on your own but something keeps pulling you back — the rumination, the what-ifs, the feeling that you should be further along by now.
You're ready to stop just getting through it and actually do the deeper work — not just to feel better, but to understand yourself more clearly and break the patterns that brought you here.
You want to come out of this stronger, more self-aware, and more confident in who you are and what you deserve in a relationship.
What's inside the course:
Module 1: Laying the foundations for healing
How to stop sabotaging your healing, create a supportive environment, and become a safe person for yourself — so you can show up for the process with everything you need.
Module 2: Navigating the emotional rollercoaster
How to process your emotions without becoming overwhelmed and use them to understand your needs — so they stop running the show and start informing your healing.
Module 3: Managing your thoughts
How to overcome negative thinking patterns and identify and begin working with your core wounds — so your mind becomes an ally in your healing rather than an obstacle.
Module 4: Growing from your relationship
How to let go of blame, take responsibility for your part, and forgive yourself — so this relationship becomes a source of growth rather than ongoing pain.
Module 5: Finding closure and peace
How to give yourself closure without needing anything from your ex and rewrite your breakup story — so you can make peace with the past and feel genuinely optimistic about what's next.
Module 6: Reinventing you
How to redefine love for yourself and become the kind of partner you want to attract — so you move forward not just healed, but transformed.
This course is NOT for you if...
You are looking for a quick fix or magic pill solution without putting in the work.
You just want to get rid of the pain without doing the deeper healing work.
You are not willing to explore your emotions, beliefs and patterns related to your past relationship.
You are not willing to self-reflect on your mistakes and take responsibility for your part in the relationship breakdown.
You dislike meditation and journalling and are not willing to explore them.
You are healing from abuse. Healing from abuse requires different resources and support beyond the scope of this course.
You have long-standing diagnosable mental health conditions that require specialised treatment.
You feel uncomfortable or unsafe processing your thoughts and emotions on your own. If this is you, 1:1 support is recommended instead.
Ready to start healing?
You've already taken the first step by being here.
Healing from heartbreak is one of the most courageous things you can choose to do — not just getting through it, but actually doing the work to understand yourself more deeply and come out the other side changed for the better.
That's what Thriving After Heartbreak is here to support you through. When you're ready, I'd love to be part of your journey.
Pay in full
AUD$297
Payment plan
AUD$165 x 2 months
Here's what people who have worked with me on heartbreak and relationship healing have said:
Before working with Joyce, I was trapped in a cycle of post-breakup rumination. Joyce's guidance and powerful tools helped me uncover the root of my issues. By the end, I felt like I'd shed a heavy layer – constant thoughts and fears replaced by calm and clarity. Joyce's skill for navigating complex emotions and facilitating real growth is truly exceptional. Her unique approach combines deep empathy with practical strategies, creating a safe space for profound self-discovery and healing. If you're stuck after a breakup, Joyce can help you find the breakthrough you need to move forward and thrive. Her methods don't just offer temporary relief; they provide a transformative experience that equips you with lifelong tools for emotional resilience and personal growth.
I used to struggle with feelings of inadequacy, believing I wasn't good enough to attract a loving partner. Despite years of working on my self-esteem, I couldn't achieve a breakthrough. Joyce's guidance was the game-changer I needed. Her sessions were comfortable and insightful, helping me pinpoint my core issues and develop a clear action plan. Joyce's expertise in navigating complex emotions and facilitating real growth is remarkable. Her ability to identify root causes saved me countless hours of solo struggle. If you're stuck in a cycle of self-doubt and unsuccessful self-improvement attempts, Joyce can provide the professional insight and tools you need to boost your confidence and transform your relationship with yourself. Her support is truly a worthwhile investment in your emotional well-being and future happiness.
When my marriage ended, I was drowning in a sea of doubt, regret, anger, anxiety, confusion, and sadness. Joyce became my lifeline. Through our work together, I not only processed these overwhelming emotions but also uncovered and healed core childhood wounds that had shaped my marriage and its aftermath.
Joyce's approach is transformative. Her kindness, patience, and calming presence created a safe space for deep healing. She gently guided me to insights about myself I had never realized before. Now, I'm at peace with my separation and genuinely excited about my future – a future that looks and feels dramatically different.
If you're struggling with heartbreak or major life transitions, Joyce's expertise can be the catalyst for profound change. Her beautifully caring soul and skilled guidance don't just offer temporary relief; they provide the tools for lasting transformation. Working with Joyce isn't just recommended – it's a gift you give yourself for a healthier, happier future.
